Lancaster News – Opinion   April 3, 2002

Lancaster, South Carolina

 

I Promise Program provides negotiating power

 

Lancaster teens, have you asked your parents for the car tonight?  The main thing on your parents’ minds every time they hand you the keys to the car is:  hoping you will return home safely.

 

Your parents are concerned with the fact that car crashes are the leading cause of permanent injury and death for teens in America.  Therefore, no other question sends shivers up their backs quite like when you ask, “May I use the car tonight?”

 

As a teen who just obtained a driver’s license, you have driven with your mom and/or dad for experience.  You have become aware of their driving habits, and you may even be concerned for their safety from paying attention to their driving!  However, just how do you negotiate with your parents for the keys to the car?

 

The “I Promise” Program has a unique answer.  The program is designed to appease your parents while keeping you both safe on the road.  The “I Promise” Program relies on your parent’s willingness to be a positive role model and not be hypocritical towards you.  You, on the other hand, must be able to demonstrate concern for your parent’s well being while at the same time maturely accepting your responsibility to be an appropriate road user.

 

Together, you enter into a mutual safe-driving agreement.  The agreement spells out your mutual obligations to drive sober, wear seat belts, etc.  Then you agree to place a rear window decal on the car that displays a toll free number.  This decal allows other people to make reports on your driving behavior.  The reports are confidential and come to only your family by mail.  Driving responsibly guarantees no reports.  Driving courteously may result in a complimentary report, and driving dangerously may result in a complaint.  Your family manages any reports as pre-negotiated in the family safe driving agreement.

 

 

 

 

 

 

As a teen, the “I Promise” Program provides you with the power to negotiate in advance, the rules for obtaining and using the family car.  Parents will be impressed with your maturity in providing a solution to demonstrate your responsibility in a way that keeps everyone focused on safety.

 

How do you think they will react to your question then?

 

A limited number of registrations for the “I Promise” Program are available FREE from Healthy Lancaster.  Call (803) 285-6220 to get yours today!

 

Tracey Garrell

Healthy Lancaster

 

 

For more information and to print an order form see: www.ipromiseprogram.com